Donesha didn't make it to the meeting, but Sahia met with me, Thomas, and Steve about the fundraiser. There isn't going to be a fundraiser this month as planned. Apparently, there are many steps (read: hoops) that have to be gone through in order to have one approved. Frankly, I'm not much in the mood for navigating bureaucratic mazes.
If I had discretionary income to play with, I'd buy what I wanted to place in the gym and just turn in the receipts afterward. But the fundraiser wasn't only about equipment. Not all parents and guardians are just dumping kids and teens off in my class because they don't want to be bothered with them for an hour. Some parents and guardians are appreciative that boxing is free because they want their youths involved in something that is positive that won't strain their budgets. However, there isn't money in their houses to pay for extras the youths may want like boxing tops and trunks, extra mouthpieces, and boxing shoes. There have been youths who haven't been able to attend boxing shows and tournaments because of transportation issues. Some have dropped out of the class because of that. Those are some of the reasons why the program hasn't grown much over the nearly four years I've been running it. Steve keeps telling me that having more kids in the class would be justification for me getting extra resources. But it is what the park district does NOT provide and apparently can't provide which adds to the frustrations and challenges I have to face in the gym.
Teens have come to me asking about entering the Chicago Golden Gloves. When I tell them they have to pay for a license, plus pay a registration fee on top of that, I notice the shift in their enthusiasm. If I could afford to come out of my own pocket to make sure they were able to compete, I'd pay for it. But on my part-time salary, I can't, so I just have to watch potential champions slip away. The sport can show youths there is a world of other opportunities outside of the 12-to-14 block neighborhoods they live in, but if extra assistance is not available to help them, that's an issue.
For every enthusiastic kid I encounter, I have to contend with several who don't have clear reasons why they want to be in my gym. Yesterday, three teenage girls plopped themselves down on the equipment table during the 12-years-old and younger class. The girls took too long to answer when I asked them why they were in the gym, so I said in a clipped manner, "This is not a hangout spot." Finally, the ringleader told me that someone sitting up at the front desk sent them downstairs for me to sign them up for the class. I suspect that some recreation leaders and instructors play fast and loose with the registration process. I don't. I told the girls their parents had to give permission for them to be in the class or they were not going to be in it. Sahia, who appears to have more patience with youths than I ever will, asked the ringleader why she wanted to take up boxing. The girl shrugged her shoulders and said, "I just want to be in it." That wasn't a good enough answer for me. The other two didn't state their reasons at all. Then the ringleader indicated she and her crew didn't want to spar or compete. I had to fight the urge to roll my eyes as I explained I'm not going to teach self-defense.
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