Friday, September 18, 2015
Snafus and Absences
Due to a snafu on the part of the insurance company, I had to forfeit a doctor's appointment that I had been waiting to go to for about three months. The insurance company kept (in my late dad's words) dicking me around over the phone, so I could not resolve the problem right then and there. Because of that, I was late to LaFollette. After I arrived, I was wishing that I could immediately go home.
Kody and BJ came in. They have signed up again for the class, but there's been no change in either. If I don't stay on BJ, he doesn't train hard or consistently, and Kody just plays around. It's a long 75 minute session when I have people in the gym who won't do what they are supposed to be doing.
Finally, I asked Kody, "Do you want to win fights?" His response was, "I want to be able to hurt people on the street who mess with me." I told Kody that he has to train as hard as someone who participates in regular matches to be able to defend himself elsewhere. Kody was bugging BJ to spar, but BJ wasn't interested. Then Kody turns around and says he's not interested in sparring.
BJ backtracked on his promise to take a fight at Simons Park next month, as well. "I don't think I'm ready for that," BJ said. "Why are these kids in here?" I thought to myself. To make matters worse, Kishaun and Derrick Jr. were no shows. I expected Kishaun to at least come in and explain why he didn't show up at Loyola Park's boxing show yesterday. I'm trying to get out of the habit of always snapping and yelling at the kids as I don't like channeling either of my late parents' angry tones. I forced myself to talk in even tones to BJ and Kody despite of all the slacking that was going on. But it was damn hard for me to do.
There are only two more Chicago Park District boxing shows I'm going to take the kids to, and a private boxing show in Evanston, and that's it for this year. I expect the self-motivation as well as the attendance to suffer even further after the opportunities to participate in matches dwindles.
None of the adults -- Dan nor De-Fetrick -- showed up for their class, either. The absences did give me a chance to sign up two new kids, Felicia and Deshawn, for the 12 years old and under class. That class is padding out a little more, and for that, I'm grateful.